Elizabeth “Betty” Lawler

08/04/1937 –
12/16/2025

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Bernard T. Meiners, 95 of Coon Rapids, died Monday, September 1, 2025 at Thomas Rest Haven in Coon Rapids surrounded by his family.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Friday, September 5, 2025 at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Dedham. The Celebrant will be Fr. Patrick Behm, assisted by Deacon Louis Meiners. Music will be by Jane Heithoff and the St. Joseph’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Jill Klein. Gift Bearers will be Talina Haskins, Caitlin ThongVahn, and Amanda Meiners. Casket Bearers will be Brian Meiners, Ben Meiners, Aaron Meiners, Lucas Meiners, Jason Nees, Mike Nees, Ryan Schultes, Tyler Schultes, Jordan Schultes, Justin Meiners, and Trenton Meiners. Burial will be in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Dedham with military honors conducted by the Dedham American Legion.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. The casket will be moved to St. Joseph’s Church on Friday morning where additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be left at the funeral home or the church for a later designation.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Bernard’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Elizabeth “Betty” Lawler, 88 of Westside, died early Tuesday morning, December 16, 2025 at St. Anthony Nursing Home in Carroll.

Mass of the Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m., Saturday, December 20, 2025 at St. Ann’s Catholic Church in Vail. The Celebrant will be Fr. Michael Cronin. Music will be by Irene Feilmeier and the St. Ann’s Choir. Lector for the Funeral Mass will be Carol Venner. Gift Bearers will be Stephanie Miller – Nees, Abby Nees, and Zachary Hertzig. Casket Bearers will be Zachary Hertzig, Ken Venner, Oran Kohorst, Bill Lawler, George Schechinger, Joe Schechinger, and Mike Harpenau. A private family burial will be in St. Ann’s Cemetery in Vail. Friends and family are invited to a reception to honor Betty’s life at the Vail Community Building following the Funeral Mass.

A visitation will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Friday at the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll with a rosary at 7 p.m. Additional visitation will be from 9:30-10:15 a.m. on Saturday at the church prior to the Funeral Mass.

Funeral arrangements are under the guidance of the Sharp Funeral Home in Carroll and online condolences may be left for Betty’s family at www.sharpfuneral.com.

Elizabeth was born on August 4, 1937 in Carroll, Iowa, the daughter of Joseph and Mary (Steinkamp) Kohorst. She attended St. Angela’s School and later graduated from Kuemper Catholic High School in 1956. On November 21, 1959, she was united in marriage to Fenton Lawler at St. John’s Catholic Church in Arcadia with Fr. Stork officiating.

Betty was a devoted homemaker and also worked in retail. She loved to socialize and go to dances with her husband Fenton. Betty was a member of Red Hats, Westside American Legion Auxiliary, and a lifelong member of St. Ann’s Parish in Vail where she served in many capacities over the years.

Survivors include her daughters: Lori (Rick) Hertzig of Bellevue, NE, and Monica (Joey) Cale of Westside; her grandchildren: Stephanie Miller-Nees, Abby Nees, and Zachary Hertzig; her sister, Jean Lawler of Carroll; as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended relatives.

Betty was preceded in death by her parents; her husband Fenton; her sister, Mae Schechinger; and her brother, Vernon Kohorst.

Church Service

Friday, September 5, 2025 10:30 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Burial

Sharp Funeral Home ~ Carroll, Iowa

226 W. 8th St., Carroll, IA, 51401

712-792-4301

[email protected]

https://www.sharpfuneral.com

Church Service

Thursday, September 4, 2025
5:00 – 7:00 p.m. – Rosary at 7:00 p.m.
Sharp Funeral Home – Carroll
226 W. 8th St, Carroll, IA 50401

Friday, September 5, 2025
9:30 – 10:15 a.m.
St. Joseph’s Catholic Church
420 3rd Ave, Dedham, IA 51440

Obituary

Born March 31, 1930, he was the son of Bernard and Catherine (Rotert) Meiners. He grew up in the Dedham-Willey area and graduated from St. Mary’s School in Willey in 1943. He entered the U.S. Army July 8, 1953 and was stationed at Wurzburg, Germany. He was discharged on May 20, 1955.

Bernard married Dolores S. Halbur on January 24, 1956 at St. Augustine Catholic Church in Halbur. After being married Bernard and Dolores lived 3 miles north of Dedham for two years. In 1958, they moved to the farm they purchased four miles east of Dedham. They were the parents of six children: Daniel, Dale, David, Cathleen, Christine, and Gary. Dolores passed away January 21, 1978.

On August 9, 1980, Bernard married Marita Eickman at Annunciation Catholic Church in Coon Rapids. In May 2011, Bernard and Marita moved off the farm into the town of Coon Rapids, Iowa. They made their home there for 14 years. In April 2025, they moved to Parkview Assisted Living in Coon Rapids, Iowa.

During Bernard’s lifetime, he farmed, had a dairy operation, had a cow/calf operation, and raised hogs. He retired in 1992. He is a current member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church of Dedham, a member of the Dedham American Legion Post #20, and a member of the Manning VFW. In July 2001 Bernard, being a Korean Veteran, had the privilege to go on the Military Honor Flight to Washington DC. Just recently he was presented with a Quilt of Valor at Thomas Rest Haven, and at the age of 95 he still enjoyed attending the Legion meetings.

Bernard loved spending time with his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Holiday gatherings were a treat for him to get to see most of them at one time. In his spare time Bernard enjoyed gathering black walnuts in the fall and kept busy shelling the walnuts during the winter. Family and friends benefited from the fruits of his labor.

Bernard is survived by his wife of 45 years, Marita Meiners; his children, Dale (Mary) Meiners of Carroll, David (Jane) Meiners of Varna, IL, Cathleen (Larry) Nees of Coon Rapids, Christine (Mark) Schultes of Dedham, and Gary (Barb) Meiners of Manson; 19 grandchildren; 32 great grandchildren with 2 more coming in October; a brother Anthony (Colleen) Meiners of Carroll; 2 sisters, Catherine Wittrock of Carroll and Marcella Naberhaus of Carroll; his sisters-in-laws, Margaret (Tom) Denker of Manning, and Pat (Joe) Goblirsch of Jesup. He is also survived by Marita’s children, Richard (Sandy) Eickman of Omaha, NE, James (Joni) Eickman of Dyer, TN, Dave (Joan) Eickman of Macungie, PA, Randy (Rose) Eickman of Coon Rapids, Nancy Eickman and Jim Springer of Warren, NJ, and Karen Heck of Delano, MN, and many nieces and nephews.

Bernard was preceded in death by his first wife Dolores S. Meiners; a son Daniel J. Meiners; Marita’s son Bill Eickman; his parents Bernard and Catherine Meiners; his brothers John (Margaret) Meiners, Albert (Frances) Meiners; his brothers-in-law Clarence Wittrock, Norbert Naberhaus, Cletus (Emaline) Halbur, Norman (Inez) Halbur, Larry (JoAnn) Halbur; his brother-in-law, William (Marie) Halbur; Dolores’ parents, William and Frances Halbur, and stepmother-in-law, Josephine Halbur.

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The sweetest lady with the sweetest smile- Eternal rest grant unto her O Lord and May Your perpetual light shine upon her

Renee Greve – December 16 2025 at 1:24 PM

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The gangs all together again!! Rest in peace Betty and BIG HUGS to you Lori, Monica & families!! Lots of memories with the Fenton & Betty!! :rose::latin_cross:️:pray::skin-tone-2:

Sandy Williams – December 17 2025 at 1:49 PM

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Today we say "so long for now" to a very special lady. I worked with Betty for only a year at Kuker Clinic way back in 1971/72. She became my "Mom #2...& a very close friend! I loved her spunk! I moved back to the Algona area when I got married in 1972, but we remained long-distance friends for over 50 years. We spoke or wrote often over the years. Our birthdays were only a few days apart, so we made it a point to get together every August! I am SOOO glad I was able to visit her at the rest home this year. I wish I could be there today, but it seems only fitting to say a long-distance farewell instead. I love the thought of Betty & Fenton spending Christmas together again. Lori and Monica & families, I'm sure you have many precious memories...keep them extra close to your hearts during this difficult time. God bless you all! ~Cindy

Cindy & Larry Vaske – December 20 2025 at 11:41 AM

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Sent a gift in memory of Elizabeth "Betty" Lawler

Cindy – December 20 2025 at 11:46 AM

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Sweetest Sunrise Bouquet was purchased for the family of Elizabeth "Betty" Lawler.

Comment #53372873 – December 18 2025 at 12:47 AM

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